Your list is accurate. Hate is a negative emotion, it lets other people have space in your head. Hate chains you to what you despise. It's a form of insanity. Fomentation of hate is an effort to undermine our identity and question our morals and beliefs. It turns otherwise good people against one another. You don't know the power of the dark side! :-)
Hate is exactly the reason I left so cal 25 years ago. I could feel myself becoming a hater,something I had never been in my life. I didn't want that for me or for my children and I was cognizant enough to know that even if I didn't say it out loud,my kids would internalize what they would see in me even if not able to describe it ( my youngest was 4). We moved to Idaho, which had gotten a bad rap,but I knew 2 people from there and they were kind hearted non hating people. What I found here was people,mostly from other places, that just wanted to talk to you, hold doors open for you,wave at you even though they didn't know you,teenagers that were friendly and people that just wanted to live their lives and be happy doing it. It was nothing like I was told it would be! The only thing they did hate was for people from Cali to come here and treat them like they were stupid bumpkins and try to change the place into a mini California. It has changed here a lot over the years,exactly because of wealthy democrats coming in,buying everything up, running for local political positions as conservatives and voting in stupid Cali style laws and driving the less fortunate out of their birth state. They simply cannot make the connection between their politics and the misery they came here to escape. But I still love this place and can't imagine living any where else. I am consumed with happiness,feel truly blessed and have taken up the good fight but I refuse to be hateful.
It definitely gets old. I found myself driving in circles many days in a row in the abandoned lot where some jackass tried to sexually assault me. I wanted to run him over. I realized my mental state was corrosive and managed to stop, and move on. It was most definitely a form of insanity - you’re spot on about that!
Hate causes an adrenal gland outburst of metabolic inflammation; cortisol, epinephrine, norepinephrine, testosterone, and a myriad to cause system inflammation. Hate "hard enough" or for long periods of time greater than 90-minutes can result in the release of endogenous morphine, a.k.a. endorphins. Hatred is a self-serving addiction that will slowly kill the hater over time. Hate dose not age well.
Your list is accurate. Hate is a negative emotion, it lets other people have space in your head. Hate chains you to what you despise. It's a form of insanity. Fomentation of hate is an effort to undermine our identity and question our morals and beliefs. It turns otherwise good people against one another. You don't know the power of the dark side! :-)
Yes. Hate is the most stable of conditions/emotions.
If you harbor it, it will come for you too.
Its just insane. Wouldn't it get old having that much hate in your heart?
Hate is exactly the reason I left so cal 25 years ago. I could feel myself becoming a hater,something I had never been in my life. I didn't want that for me or for my children and I was cognizant enough to know that even if I didn't say it out loud,my kids would internalize what they would see in me even if not able to describe it ( my youngest was 4). We moved to Idaho, which had gotten a bad rap,but I knew 2 people from there and they were kind hearted non hating people. What I found here was people,mostly from other places, that just wanted to talk to you, hold doors open for you,wave at you even though they didn't know you,teenagers that were friendly and people that just wanted to live their lives and be happy doing it. It was nothing like I was told it would be! The only thing they did hate was for people from Cali to come here and treat them like they were stupid bumpkins and try to change the place into a mini California. It has changed here a lot over the years,exactly because of wealthy democrats coming in,buying everything up, running for local political positions as conservatives and voting in stupid Cali style laws and driving the less fortunate out of their birth state. They simply cannot make the connection between their politics and the misery they came here to escape. But I still love this place and can't imagine living any where else. I am consumed with happiness,feel truly blessed and have taken up the good fight but I refuse to be hateful.
It definitely gets old. I found myself driving in circles many days in a row in the abandoned lot where some jackass tried to sexually assault me. I wanted to run him over. I realized my mental state was corrosive and managed to stop, and move on. It was most definitely a form of insanity - you’re spot on about that!
Oh goodness, im sorry. .
That had to be something very difficult to overcome.
But you're right. It's probably the only way to "heal" yourself.
"I don't trust loyalty. Hate is far more reliable." - some Roman general referring to his soldiers' motivation.
Hate causes an adrenal gland outburst of metabolic inflammation; cortisol, epinephrine, norepinephrine, testosterone, and a myriad to cause system inflammation. Hate "hard enough" or for long periods of time greater than 90-minutes can result in the release of endogenous morphine, a.k.a. endorphins. Hatred is a self-serving addiction that will slowly kill the hater over time. Hate dose not age well.