My sister also! We had a big party for my mom turning 95. She assumes I am not vaccinated (I actually got the j&j back in April) but she never asked, so I am having fun just letting her think I am not. Daughter (30s) is NOT- and I am supporting that fully. She doesn't need to be. Sister would NOT come near us at the party, wore her mask and when we got within a few feet of her, her eyes would get really big and she would bak up. SO much theater. Yes, she wanted us to engage, but she was too chicken shit to start the conversation. I am ok not talking to her. She has not liked me since middle school. As an adult I have tried to be a good sister by doing "sisterly" things for and with her. Never reciprocated. This virus crap brought out the real her. It's fun to watch them slowly be wrong about everything she thinks she is/was "right" about.
Her fear was palpable. She will need counselling as do many others. They are the ones who connected case = death. All created by the press, first to dump a President, they for clicks.
Isn’t it amazing what this virus has brought to light about our government, friends and family? At first I found it depressing and attacked. Now I’m so thankful for the light to have been shone on family who truly don’t care and have distinctly different values; people in our government who hate the U.S. and are only in the game of life for money and power; and friends who I consider to be brilliant that are completely driven by fear. I truly pity those that live in fear and reject their family members. We can’t stop loving our family, and lose our commitment to be there for them if a need arises, but nobody ever said we had to like them or spend time with them. Toxic family/people should be avoided at all costs!
My sister also! We had a big party for my mom turning 95. She assumes I am not vaccinated (I actually got the j&j back in April) but she never asked, so I am having fun just letting her think I am not. Daughter (30s) is NOT- and I am supporting that fully. She doesn't need to be. Sister would NOT come near us at the party, wore her mask and when we got within a few feet of her, her eyes would get really big and she would bak up. SO much theater. Yes, she wanted us to engage, but she was too chicken shit to start the conversation. I am ok not talking to her. She has not liked me since middle school. As an adult I have tried to be a good sister by doing "sisterly" things for and with her. Never reciprocated. This virus crap brought out the real her. It's fun to watch them slowly be wrong about everything she thinks she is/was "right" about.
Her fear was palpable. She will need counselling as do many others. They are the ones who connected case = death. All created by the press, first to dump a President, they for clicks.
Isn’t it amazing what this virus has brought to light about our government, friends and family? At first I found it depressing and attacked. Now I’m so thankful for the light to have been shone on family who truly don’t care and have distinctly different values; people in our government who hate the U.S. and are only in the game of life for money and power; and friends who I consider to be brilliant that are completely driven by fear. I truly pity those that live in fear and reject their family members. We can’t stop loving our family, and lose our commitment to be there for them if a need arises, but nobody ever said we had to like them or spend time with them. Toxic family/people should be avoided at all costs!
yes!