I make it look easy. It is anything BUT. I can't tell you how many people over the years have told me that I just don't have the struggles they have (and it's not fair!).
Because my life looks easy to people who do not see my normal life struggles; because I don't whine about it -- I am told I have "privilege."
There are so many people my age (older) who talk about their privilege guilt. (this is another way of inducing people to attack themselves).
Life is supposed to be hard, and you get knocked down. Then you have a choice -- stay there and complain about it, or pick yourself up, dust yourself off, learn the lesson and grow from it; toughen up while you develop compassion and good boundaries. This can happen in a healthy environment, which we currently do not have.
until they really sit down with you and get to know you very well, people think your life is easier than theirs. Either you live on and make the best of it or you welt like a plant without water. The train rolls on with or without you, whatever you sit and cry you loose! Great comment Dani thanks! But they all are LOL All get a medal today
I make it look easy. It is anything BUT. I can't tell you how many people over the years have told me that I just don't have the struggles they have (and it's not fair!).
Because my life looks easy to people who do not see my normal life struggles; because I don't whine about it -- I am told I have "privilege."
There are so many people my age (older) who talk about their privilege guilt. (this is another way of inducing people to attack themselves).
Life is supposed to be hard, and you get knocked down. Then you have a choice -- stay there and complain about it, or pick yourself up, dust yourself off, learn the lesson and grow from it; toughen up while you develop compassion and good boundaries. This can happen in a healthy environment, which we currently do not have.
until they really sit down with you and get to know you very well, people think your life is easier than theirs. Either you live on and make the best of it or you welt like a plant without water. The train rolls on with or without you, whatever you sit and cry you loose! Great comment Dani thanks! But they all are LOL All get a medal today