Oh, I remember that one well. Had no idea why they were so obviously blinded to my plight, but I certainly knew it meant suck it up buttercup. And I did. Also contributed to anger issues for not being heard, ever. But I worked through that too (no drugs or therapy, lol).
In my home it was "I'll give you something to cry about," which was code for a momentous ass beating. It was highly effective.
Oh, I remember that one well. Had no idea why they were so obviously blinded to my plight, but I certainly knew it meant suck it up buttercup. And I did. Also contributed to anger issues for not being heard, ever. But I worked through that too (no drugs or therapy, lol).
Same