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I know my advice wasn't asked for, but I'm giving it anyway! LOL! We are headed for difficult times, and we're going to need to be as brave as possible to face them. For me it's a huge help knowing I have my husband's hand to hold and that we are of the same outlook on all of this. Your home and relationships should be a place of peace and respite. On the other hand, no harm in enjoying your date's company, but be aware that you've already seen his "insides".

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And his totalitarian streak.

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Well, yes. LOL! I hate to be "Debbie Downer", but yeesh, she already has to negotiate a place for a meal. Doesn't bode well. ;)

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Truth. When they're breaking up it'll be "I should've seen that red flag when he said he was okay with one of the ten steps to genocide on our first date..."

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I shouldn't laugh, but that was funny. 😄

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Thx. I am laughing a lot catching up on all these el gato substacks. Peeps are very funny in the comments--love it.

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Thanks, I appreciate the advice! Unfortunately it's the norm around here; 90% simply have no clue. Yes, I don't think we are soul mates. As kitten seeking answers said above, I'm too sane for him. I did consider going all Basic Instinct and kissing him then telling him I'm unvaxxed and have Covid rofl. But he might be into that ...

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