I used to like y’all and folks. My Canadian guy calls me “folksy” in my Americanness. I take that as a compliment.
But now I hear the woke have culturally appropriated the terms and I cringe.
I love how this thread exposes it! I feel validated 🤣
I have a weird speech affectation where I call people "boss," like, "hey, boss, can I get a coffee?"
Some years ago someone told me I was appropriating black slave speech. I was so dumbfounded by this that I, of course, had to say, "well, shit, sorry, boss."
I don't know where I picked it up. I don't think it was from hanging out with 19th century slaves.
Anyway, I also called my actual bosses at work "boss," and it only drove the woke ones crazy (they didn't like "sir" either).
One of my high school teachers (special advanced public all-girls high school in the 1950s), when someone addressed her as "ma'am," used to say, "Don't call me Madam; I'm just one of the girls." We thought that was really cool and funny at the time -- but I wouldn't advise saying it to your daughter! 🤣🤣🤣
I used to like y’all and folks. My Canadian guy calls me “folksy” in my Americanness. I take that as a compliment.
But now I hear the woke have culturally appropriated the terms and I cringe.
I love how this thread exposes it! I feel validated 🤣
I have a weird speech affectation where I call people "boss," like, "hey, boss, can I get a coffee?"
Some years ago someone told me I was appropriating black slave speech. I was so dumbfounded by this that I, of course, had to say, "well, shit, sorry, boss."
I don't know where I picked it up. I don't think it was from hanging out with 19th century slaves.
Anyway, I also called my actual bosses at work "boss," and it only drove the woke ones crazy (they didn't like "sir" either).
Reminds me of how my 13 year old daughter has taken to calling me Madam. I’ll let her carry on.
She’s only verging on woke and I’m hoping I still have time to disrupt! I waded briefly myself…
The pendulum Will Swing!!!
One of my high school teachers (special advanced public all-girls high school in the 1950s), when someone addressed her as "ma'am," used to say, "Don't call me Madam; I'm just one of the girls." We thought that was really cool and funny at the time -- but I wouldn't advise saying it to your daughter! 🤣🤣🤣
Madam is way better than ma’am anyway. So much more mysterious and dignified!
Hey! "Will Swing" is my pornstar name!